
Online Christian Literature Index
Marriage & Family


There are some very important outward ordinances and means of grace which are plainly implied in the Word of God, but for the exercise of which we have few, if any, plain and positive precepts; rather are we left to gather them from the example of holy men and from various incidental circumstances. An important end is answered by this arrangement: trial is thereby made of the state of our hearts. It serves to make evident whether, because an expressed command cannot be brought requiring its performance, professing Christians will neglect a duty plainly implied...

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"Nevertheless let each one of you in particular so love his own wife as himself and let the wife see that she respects her husband" (Ephesians 5:33). Marriage is the foundation of all society, and so this topic is very important. Explaining marital duties to you is much easier than persuading you to do them. Conform your will to Scripture, not vice versa. Take Ephesians 5:33 to heart.

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"Train up a child in the way he should go; and when he is old, he will not depart from it." -Pr.22:6
I SUPPOSE that most professing Christians are acquainted with the text at the head of this page. The sound of it is probably familiar to your ears, like an old tune. It is likely you have heard it, or read it, talked of it, or quoted it, many a time. Is it not so?

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He that is the master of a family, he has, as under that relation, a work to do for God; the right governing of his own family. And his work is twofold. First, Touching the spiritual state of it. Second, Touching the outward state of it.

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"As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord." -Joshua 24:15.
"Let me die the death of the righteous, and let my last end be like his!" We have said, my brethren, on a former occasion, that if we would die his death, we must live his life. It is true that there are cases in which the Lord shows his mercy and his glory to men who are already lying on the death-bed, and says to them, as to the thief on the cross, "Today shalt thou be with me in paradise." The Lord still gives the Church similar examples from time to time, for the purpose of displaying his sovereign power...

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Let those masters of families that have hitherto lived in the neglect of family-religion be persuaded now to set it up, and from henceforward to make conscience of it. I know it is hard to persuade people to begin even a good work that they have not been used to, yet if God by his grace set in with this word, who can tell but some may be wrought upon to comply with the design of it? We have no ill design in urging you to this part of your duty: we aim not at the advantage of a party, but purely at the prosperity of your families.
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Pathway to Christian Marriage
By John W. Thompson
Pathway to Christian Marriage is a Biblical guide for the journey from singleness to marriage. It describes the dangers associated with “recreational romance,” while explaining Scriptural guidelines for establishing a Christ-honoring marriage. The timeless truths contained in this booklet will help one arrive at the altar in purity.
Prayerfully applying these principles will prove helpful for older teens and their parents, as well as for parents of toddlers and preteens, for young people before they are attracted to the opposite sex, and for Christians of every age who desire to glorify the Lord Jesus Christ in every aspect of their lives. On this pathway, families as well as individuals will prepare for entering the joy that God has designed for Christian marriage.


Claiming God's Promises for a Wife
An encouragement for single men who are looking.

Mr. Muller's Marriage
From George Muller's Narratives
In Vol. 3 of The Narrative, Mr. Muller shows the ordering of God in his meeting with and subsequent marriage to his first wife, Miss Mary Groves. “In giving her to me, I own the hand of God; nay, His hand was most marked; and my soul says, ‘Thou art good, and doest good.’”


Question: Is it okay and Biblical for wives without children to work especially if the husband is struggling financially? Some people refer to Titus 2:5 objecting. Some refer to the Proverbs 31 Woman and how she helped her husband.
Answer: Proverbs 31 is clear that it's okay for a woman to assist the family financially as long as it doesn't negatively impact her home responsibilities - even her husband and children praise her for her godly character and her prudence and industry in helping the family financially without it taking away from her responsibilities in the home. Titus 2:5 is not an "absolute under no circumstances whatsoever" rule that can't be modified under rare situations as the need may dictate. But the wife's central base is the home, not outside work, and she must do all things under the guidance of and in harmony with her husband.



Marriage - A Picture of Christ and the Church
By Peter Sarkis
The husband ought to love his wife as his own body and nourish and cherish his wife just as the Lord does the church. If a man loves his wife, he loves himself for the husband and wife are no longer two but one flesh (Matt. 19:6).

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